What to Wear to an Unveiling of a Tombstone

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I take been asked by a very close friend to attend the unveiling of a headstone at a cemetery this Sunday. I believe this is 1 year after the death of their relative and, in my mind, this is a sort of commemoration of their life and the unveiling of the headstone is a tribute. In other words, it is not a grim affair.

The problem is that I don't own a black suit, black sport coat or blackness shoes. I have black pants and a black shirt. I accept a navy chalk-stripe accommodate and a blackness/greyness mesomorphic hounds tooth sport coat. I have dark brown shoes and many different shirts/ties.

What should I clothing? A modest function of me wants to put on black pants, a black shirt and the grey/black sport coat, merely I don't want to look like a waiter. Then once more, I don't want to offend anyone, and seeing as how this is a Russian/Jewish outcome, I am 99% sure most men volition wear black regardless of whether information technology'southward a happy result or non (Russians dear black for everything).

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you have blackness shorts dont yous

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Dude, this is serious threak. End with the anticipated bullshit. The shorts are navy.

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Originally Posted by Mr. Moo

Dude, this is serious threak. Stop with the predictable bullshit. The shorts are navy.

my bad looked black on my monitor
pair information technology upwardly with some navy socks = skilful to go

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I don't retrieve black is completely necessary, every bit long equally the outfit is somber with little to no "color". Navy, charcoal, white, black, etc should make up the core of the outfits colour.

Wear a striped or patterned tie, white pocket square, and a well fitting jacket to gear up you apart from the waitstaff. Don't comport a towel or platter either.

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I wouldn't wearable the chalk-stripe. Maybe the sportscoat with greyness or charcoal pants.

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Navy or charcoal are going to be but fine for the occasion. I don't ain a black adapt, and in the many unfortunate occasions over the past few years in which I've had to attend funerals or wakes, navy or charcoal did the job admirably. Just make sure you pick a dark shade of navy and not a vibrant, light, or colorful i.

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Originally Posted past whiteslashasian

I don't think black is completely necessary, equally long as the outfit is somber with little to no "color". Navy, charcoal, white, black, etc should brand up the core of the outfits color. Wear a striped or patterned tie, white pocket square, and a well fitting jacket to set you autonomously from the waitstaff. Don't bear a towel or platter either.

Originally Posted by Big-headed Bastard

Navy or charcoal are going to be only fine for the occasion. I don't own a black suit, and in the many unfortunate occasions over the past few years in which I've had to attend funerals or wakes, navy or charcoal did the chore admirably. Simply make sure you pick a dark shade of navy and not a vibrant, low-cal, or colorful one.

Originally Posted past KObalto

I wouldn't wear the chalk-stripe. Possibly the sportscoat with grey or charcoal pants.
Give thanks you guys - much appreciated. Would a chalk-stripe non work in this instance? I don't own a solid suit.

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i call up navy and as inconspicuous as possible. this is one 24-hour interval you don't want people noticing your wearing apparel.

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Moo, If you feel like shopping, now would be a good time to add a solid charcoal conform to your arsenal. My suggest is to not be cheap, and buy somthing you really like since it is a wardrope staple.

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Originally Posted past foodguy

i recall navy and as inconspicuous as possible. this is one solar day you don't want people noticing your clothes.
Solid navy would be my choice also.

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I don't retrieve chalk stripes would exist somber enough. Pinstripes would exist okay.

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Mr Moo,
Since, as y'all stated, information technology is more a celebration of the mans life and therefore not a grim affair,
stay abroad from 'funeral attire'. I meet no problem at all with wearing your chalk stripe suit.
Were it me, I'd fifty-fifty vesture brown shoes. The only thing I, personally would not wear, are polka dots or loud colors. Any you lot make up one's mind, you lot are nevertheless going to be the best dressed human being in that location.
Let united states know how it all turned out, and what the others wore. I'll wager yous'll come out aces.

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Originally Posted by Human Of Lint

Mr Moo,
Since, every bit you stated, information technology is more a commemoration of the mans life and therefore not a grim affair,
stay away from 'funeral attire'. I see no trouble at all with wearing your chalk stripe adjust.
Were it me, I'd even article of clothing brown shoes. The simply matter I, personally would not habiliment, are polka dots or loud colors. Whatever you decide, you are notwithstanding going to be the all-time dressed man in that location.
Let us know how it all turned out, and what the others wore. I'll wager you'll come out aces.

I tend to agree just I've been to a couple of "Celebration of Life" services recently and everyone was dressed in traditional funeral attire, myself included. Those who were not seemed out of place. This occasion seems much different though, then information technology'll be swell if Moo reports back to united states as you've suggested.

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